So…you’ve decided to follow your dreams – or that great job offer – and move to Portugal! And if you have children, the good news is that they generally adjust far quicker to a move than most adults.
The younger the child, the easier it is for them to adapt. It is generally acknowledged that children up to the age of seven are able to absorb what goes on around them very easily and language is usually something that they can pick up without too much effort. That is not to say that older children will not be able to cope, merely that it may require more effort on their part.
The essential thing is that you are enthusiastic about the move and that you include them in the preparations. If they think that you as a family are undertaking a huge adventure together, this will go a long way to making the move seem like something to look forward to rather than to dread.
Discuss the move with them and talk about what they can expect to find on arrival. Highlight the advantages of the move and point out that family and friends will be keen to visit them in their new home, where it will be up to them to show them around their new country …
Leaving friends behind is never easy but today, with the Internet, Facebook and emails, it is a whole lot easier. Just make very sure incidentally that when you decide to rent or to buy a property that you have access to the Internet.
A few points that are worth remembering:
- Encourage children to learn about Portugal in advance. Perhaps get an atlas and have a look at a map, read them a book about the country or you could perhaps take them to a Portuguese restaurant
- Take photos of their new home and area if they have not yet seen it yet so that it looks familiar on arrival
- I am a digital online photo album addict. Give your child a cheap digital camera and tell them to make an album of their journey from the UK to their new home…This comes with a warning – it’s addictive!
- Portuguese lessons before you leave the UK will mean that they will have a good idea as to what is going on once they attend school
- Arrange to visit new schools and meet teachers before the first day of school. When my daughter was young, her new school always appointed a ‘mentor’ for each new child – someone in the class who had been at the school for a while and could show her the ropes. You may suggest this…?
- Provide children of all ages with a notebook that they can write down all their friend’s email addresses and contact details to take with them. You may find that the computer, with all these vital details, gets damaged in the move
- There is nothing as comforting as a pet for younger children. Failing that, a favourite toy at hand at all times!
For older children it may be a little bit more difficult. Apart from just the language, there are the social aspects. Teenagers need backup from their peers and have usually formed a close group of friends from whom they get this. Leaving their friends and changing schools will be challenging – I can vouch for this personally as I did it many times and can still remember the feeling of isolation. BUT – given time - it all settles down and, with your support and over time, they will adjust and be happy.
I hope that has given you a few ideas. Remember, kids really do adjust very quickly – I know that the only problem my Swedish friend now residing in the States has is to make sure his five year old kids remember their mother tongue!
Happy week to you and we’ll chat soon,
Carol.
The Overseas Guides Company
http://www.Portugalbuyingguide.com
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Thursday, 17 February 2011
Wednesday, 8 December 2010
Renovation - how easy is this in Portugal?
Times economically are hard and more and more people are opting to buy a property that is reasonably priced but that needs restoration. And that would seem to make a lot of sense. Just looking on the internet it’s amazing to see how may properties you can find in Portugal that are in the €20,000 range – but just bear in mind that old South African saying: “Goedkoop is deurkoop”, which, loosely translated, means buying cheaply can end up being very expensive!
So…you have looked far and wide and finally found an utterly delightful property with beautiful views in exactly the part of Portugal that you fancy living in - BUT – it needs extensive restoration…
There are a number of questions you need to ask yourself: how practical is this in a country that is foreign to you, working in a language that is too? And how expensive will it turn out to be? Are you planning on doing some of it yourself? This is great if you have some sort of experience, but forget all those TV programmes you have watched if not: it’s hard work, and in the end you may have to get an expert in to complete the job effectively so have a care if you are thinking of going this route.
Be aware that different rules and regulations apply to property in Portugal. You need to know UPFRONT that you will be allowed to do what you both want and need to do to get the place in good order without having to wait years to get plans passed…that’s if they get passed at all.
Generally, restoration properties fall into two categories; those requiring full planning permission and those that don’t need any further permission at all but just some TLC. Buying a property without public utilities connected for instance is generally not a good idea. Getting mains water and electricity connected isn’t a simple process and may need planning application, which can take a very long time. I would suggest you make it a condition of purchase that you can get plans passed for work that you need to have done and that you do your research very carefully before signing anything. Your own independent lawyer would be essential here…a local recommended Portuguese lawyer who speaks English.
Unless, as previously mentioned, you have personally carried out a renovation project before, it would be advisable to get a Portuguese builder to help you. They are far cheaper than builders in the UK and there are many skilled tradesmen available at a fraction of the cost of their UK counterparts.
Generally the quality of workmanship in Portugal is very high, but you would be well advised to use someone that comes personally recommended and to ask to see examples of their completed jobs. This will give you a good idea not only of their workmanship but also of their reliability and integrity. It would also be a good idea to get your lawyer to draw up a contract outlining not only exactly what work is to be done but when it is to be done by and when payment is to be made. Payment should be on a stage-completion basis and NOT time based…
Personally I would accompany the builders to the local builders’ merchants and DIY supermarkets to buy materials. That way you supervise the cost yourself and don’t end up paying what the builder thinks you should pay! Failing that, INSIST on till slips and make it clear that this is essential upfront. I had an unpleasant wrangle with a builder once who maintained that he had ‘lost’ the slips. No slips, no payment is my future maxim.
You need to decide before repairs begin how much you are thinking of spending. Inform your builder of this and do not be coerced into going over budget. Remember that the property market is not great at the moment and, if you should want to sell in the future, you don’t want to over-capitalise in your property.
Damp is probably the most common problem in many older Portuguese properties, so be aware of this and make sure it can be sorted before rather than after you buy.
Good luck and I would be so interested in your story if you are going this route.
Have fun and speak soon,
Carol
The Overseas Guides Company
http://www.Portugalbuyingguide.com
So…you have looked far and wide and finally found an utterly delightful property with beautiful views in exactly the part of Portugal that you fancy living in - BUT – it needs extensive restoration…
There are a number of questions you need to ask yourself: how practical is this in a country that is foreign to you, working in a language that is too? And how expensive will it turn out to be? Are you planning on doing some of it yourself? This is great if you have some sort of experience, but forget all those TV programmes you have watched if not: it’s hard work, and in the end you may have to get an expert in to complete the job effectively so have a care if you are thinking of going this route.
Be aware that different rules and regulations apply to property in Portugal. You need to know UPFRONT that you will be allowed to do what you both want and need to do to get the place in good order without having to wait years to get plans passed…that’s if they get passed at all.
Generally, restoration properties fall into two categories; those requiring full planning permission and those that don’t need any further permission at all but just some TLC. Buying a property without public utilities connected for instance is generally not a good idea. Getting mains water and electricity connected isn’t a simple process and may need planning application, which can take a very long time. I would suggest you make it a condition of purchase that you can get plans passed for work that you need to have done and that you do your research very carefully before signing anything. Your own independent lawyer would be essential here…a local recommended Portuguese lawyer who speaks English.
Unless, as previously mentioned, you have personally carried out a renovation project before, it would be advisable to get a Portuguese builder to help you. They are far cheaper than builders in the UK and there are many skilled tradesmen available at a fraction of the cost of their UK counterparts.
Generally the quality of workmanship in Portugal is very high, but you would be well advised to use someone that comes personally recommended and to ask to see examples of their completed jobs. This will give you a good idea not only of their workmanship but also of their reliability and integrity. It would also be a good idea to get your lawyer to draw up a contract outlining not only exactly what work is to be done but when it is to be done by and when payment is to be made. Payment should be on a stage-completion basis and NOT time based…
Personally I would accompany the builders to the local builders’ merchants and DIY supermarkets to buy materials. That way you supervise the cost yourself and don’t end up paying what the builder thinks you should pay! Failing that, INSIST on till slips and make it clear that this is essential upfront. I had an unpleasant wrangle with a builder once who maintained that he had ‘lost’ the slips. No slips, no payment is my future maxim.
You need to decide before repairs begin how much you are thinking of spending. Inform your builder of this and do not be coerced into going over budget. Remember that the property market is not great at the moment and, if you should want to sell in the future, you don’t want to over-capitalise in your property.
Damp is probably the most common problem in many older Portuguese properties, so be aware of this and make sure it can be sorted before rather than after you buy.
Good luck and I would be so interested in your story if you are going this route.
Have fun and speak soon,
Carol
The Overseas Guides Company
http://www.Portugalbuyingguide.com
Friday, 30 July 2010
What to do in Portugal?
Hello again.
Have you seen the Grace Kelly exhibition at the V & A recently? I haven’t, but I did go along to a talk by her friend and biographer Donald Spoto. He gave a fascinating insight into the real person behind the iconic image – it was so interesting. There’s always something to do in London isn’t there?
Are you going to Portugal to look at property this summer, or indeed just to holiday? I know when I used to take my kids on holiday I always used to like to plan it so that there was something to occupy their days – nothing like an exhausted child to ensure a good night’s sleep!
The possibilities are endless in Portugal really, both for families with kids and those without. There are endless World Heritage sites, natural wonders and cultural surprises and all are far quieter – and less expensive - than in neighbouring Spain. Plus of course you have the benefit of sandy beaches, traditional fishing villages and an expansive stretch of rugged coastline. Diving and swimming are of course popular and you could learn how to surf in the southern region or along the western coastline. Or what about deep sea fishing or a Douro river cruise exploring the river and nearby ancient ruins?
Many championship golf courses dot the country plus horseback riding is a fun activity. You could perhaps combine that with a visit to the quieter rural areas, staying at renovated farm houses and traditional homes that provide accommodation for tourists and allow a glimpse into a more tranquil way of life.
And while you holiday you can be taking in what your area of choice looks like in the busy summer season. That lovely village that you first saw in spring or autumn may be simply too busy for you in summer. Or you may find that you enjoy a revived night life and having a few folk around…but for my money it really is best to see your chosen area at all times of the year before committing yourself.
I know for instance that the places I would chose to buy if I could are either Marvão or Castelo de Vide but I visited last in early May. What are they like in the middle of summer I wonder? Food for thought. Have lots of fun and do let me know your findings won’t you.
With all best wishes for happy summer days,
Carol.
Have you seen the Grace Kelly exhibition at the V & A recently? I haven’t, but I did go along to a talk by her friend and biographer Donald Spoto. He gave a fascinating insight into the real person behind the iconic image – it was so interesting. There’s always something to do in London isn’t there?
Are you going to Portugal to look at property this summer, or indeed just to holiday? I know when I used to take my kids on holiday I always used to like to plan it so that there was something to occupy their days – nothing like an exhausted child to ensure a good night’s sleep!
The possibilities are endless in Portugal really, both for families with kids and those without. There are endless World Heritage sites, natural wonders and cultural surprises and all are far quieter – and less expensive - than in neighbouring Spain. Plus of course you have the benefit of sandy beaches, traditional fishing villages and an expansive stretch of rugged coastline. Diving and swimming are of course popular and you could learn how to surf in the southern region or along the western coastline. Or what about deep sea fishing or a Douro river cruise exploring the river and nearby ancient ruins?
Many championship golf courses dot the country plus horseback riding is a fun activity. You could perhaps combine that with a visit to the quieter rural areas, staying at renovated farm houses and traditional homes that provide accommodation for tourists and allow a glimpse into a more tranquil way of life.
And while you holiday you can be taking in what your area of choice looks like in the busy summer season. That lovely village that you first saw in spring or autumn may be simply too busy for you in summer. Or you may find that you enjoy a revived night life and having a few folk around…but for my money it really is best to see your chosen area at all times of the year before committing yourself.
I know for instance that the places I would chose to buy if I could are either Marvão or Castelo de Vide but I visited last in early May. What are they like in the middle of summer I wonder? Food for thought. Have lots of fun and do let me know your findings won’t you.
With all best wishes for happy summer days,
Carol.
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